The topic
that I am addressing today is on same-sex marriage rights in Texas. Although
marriage equality in Texas wasn’t initially embraced, I feel that this topic is
becoming increasingly accepted and seems to be gaining support more and more
everyday. The article that I am referencing is entitled The Accidental Activists and is
about two Texas men, one a lawyer and the other a physician’s assistant and
former Air Force officer, filed a suit that they will address in the U.S.
District Court in San Antonio. These men were reluctant to even be the faces of
this step-in-the-right-direction but they do so because they feel like it is
the right thing to do.
In my
research I have only found a handful of gay-equality cases in Texas, this is quite shameful in my opinion. In Lawrence v. Texas the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that
any state forbidding homosexuality be deemed unconstitutional. The United States v. Windsor case made it mandatory for the federal government to
recognize same-sex marriages in states where it is legal. If these men win, the
case will likely be appealed by Rick Perry and Greg Abbott, then it will be
sent to the U.S. Supreme Court. Many are predicting that gay-marriage will
eventually be made legal in all of the states. One of the men was asked if he
would consider leaving Texas to move to a state where gay-marriage is legal and
his “Texas exceptionalism” shone through and he said “Absolutely not. That’s not anything we would even entertain. It is
inconceivable to us that we would have to move to enjoy our constitutional
rights. That’s offensive.” I love this.
I pride
myself in being a warrior and have always stood up against things that I feel
are wrong. Until now I have never spoke about the issue of gay marriage. I
recently took a step back and thought about how it must feel to someone, gay or
straight, to legally not be allowed to marry the person that you love and want
to spend the rest of your life with. It truly is heartbreaking to read about a
person, a person just like you and me, to have to hide who they are inside
because they are afraid of a multitude of factors present in our society. I
cannot even fathom that feeling because I grew up in a very supportive
household, and I wish that I could share that with everyone that is afraid. What
kind of state would want to make their citizens feel this way? I feel like that the major reason behind the opposition to gay marriage is religion. But it shouldn't be. I strongly believe in a separation between church and state and if they were separate this wouldn't be an issue.
I hope that
Texans could put aside their biblical reservations and see that we all have
feelings, we fall in love, we fall out of love, and everyone is entitled to
legally be able to do those things without prohibition, or disciplinary action
from our Texas government.